Keep it casual. Keep it safe.

How you're protected

Some of this runs in the background. The rest is in your hands.

• ID verification

  Verify your ID for free and a badge appears on your profile.

  What it means You can see who has proved they're real.

• Video verification

  A short live video check with a moderator confirms identity without any documents.

  What it means A real-person check, no paperwork shared.

• Safe usernames

  Your real name and email address are never shown on your profile.

  What it means Nobody can look you up from your profile.

• Location privacy

  Profiles show your nearest town or city, never an exact address or live location.

  What it means Your home stays private.

• Instant blocking

  Block anyone and they can no longer contact you or see your profile.

  What it means You decide who reaches you.

• Reporting

  Report a member or a piece of content from inside the site in a couple of taps.

  What it means Problems get looked at quickly.

• Content screening

  Photos, videos and text are checked by AI and human moderators as they're uploaded.

  What it means Harmful content is stopped before you see it.

• Blurred images

  Potentially explicit images are blurred with a warning before you open them.

  What it means Nothing lands on your screen unasked.

• Off-platform alerts

  You're warned when someone tries to move the chat to another app.

  What it means A common scam tactic gets flagged.

• Member ratings

  Every member has a reputation score built from behaviour and other members' feedback.

  What it means Judge someone before you reply.